Ngiyisidala. Nikeza lo mbono wokufundisa nokwenza lula umcabango othile bese wenza okwakho.
Ukushintsha inabukeni akuzona izikhathi "eziholwa yingane". Izinguquko zenabukeni yizikhathi eziholwa abazali/umnakekeli.
Ngokwesiko lethu, ngezinye izikhathi abazali abenzi okwanele ukufundisa futhi badinga ukuthi izingane zilale ukuze zishintshe inabukeni. Ukulala unganyakazi ukuze kushintshwe inabukeni kudinga ukufundiswa ngokuvumelana okungu-100% kusukela esemncane, ngokuvamile eqala cishe ezinyangeni ezi-4 noma ezi-5 ubudala noma noma nini lapho izingane zikwazi ngokomzimba ukuqala ukusuka kuwe ngesikhathi soshintsho. Izingane zifakwe ucingo ukuze zifunde kodwa zidinga ukufundiswa ukuze ziqonde ukuthi yini elindelekile. Ngisho nama-acrobats aphendukayo angafunda, kodwa umshintshi we-diaper udinga ukuhola futhi afundise njalo.
Mhlawumbe uke waqaphela ukuthi ingane izolala inganyakazi kumhlinzeki wenkulisa kodwa iphenduke ingwenya lapho uzama ukushintsha inabukeni layo. Kunesizathu salokho. Umnakekeli uye wadinga ukuziphatha okuthile futhi ingane ifundile. Qina mama. Unakho lokhu.
Amawindi okufunda asaqala. Fundisa ukuthi ukubeka kunganyakazi kuyadingeka kusukela ngesikhathi ingane ifuna ukuzigingqa ngesikhathi soshintsho futhi ingaguquguquki, usebenzisa noma iyiphi indlela yesiyalo oyikhethayo ngobuntu bengane yakho kanye nesitayela somzali womndeni wakho. Kanjani? Kuyahlukahluka. Inkulumo ebukhali ethi "hlala!" isandla sakho phezu kwengane ukuze umntwana aqonde ukuthi usho ukuthini angasebenzela abanye abancane. Kunezindlela eziningi zokufundisa futhi ubuntu bezingane buhlukile. Izingane ezihlukene zizosabela ngendlela ehlukene ezindleleni zokufundisa ezahlukene ngakho funda ingane yakho ukuze uthole ukuthi iyiphi indlela yokufundisa ezosebenza kini nobabili bese niyenza ngokungaguquki. Iningi lezingane ezisakhula lifunda ngempela ukuhlala linganyakazi uma lifundiswa ngokungaguquguquki.
Ukuphazamiseka kuhle futhi kuyasebenza kodwa akwanele futhi akuthathi indawo yokufundisa. Ngesinye isikhathi indlela yokuphazamisa kuphela izohluleka. Ithoyizi elilungile ngeke litholakale noma ngokuzumayo isiphazamiso esisebenze izolo asisathandeki namuhla. Ngaleso sikhathi, ingane idinga ukwazi kakade ukuthi ilala kanjani futhi ihlale ihlezi. Yiba nesibindi. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi yini edingekayo kuyo lapho ishintsha.
Umntwana angase angathandi ukulala isikhashana kodwa lokho kuyingxenye yempilo. Ziningi izinto esingazithandi kodwa okumele sizenze empilweni. Izinguquko zenabukeni ziyizikhathi eziholwa umzali/nomnakekeli futhi kudingeka kube ngaleyondlela ukugcina ingane ihlanzekile futhi iphephile. Futhi yebo, izinguquko ezihlanzekile ze-diaper ziyinto ebalulekile yokuphepha.
Lapho umntwana esefundile okulindeleke ekushintsheni kwenabukeni futhi ingane ikwazi ukulala isikhashana ukuze ishintshe inabukeni, izinguquko zenabukeni ziyashesha, zibe lula futhi zijabule kuwo wonke umuntu.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Aug-10-2022
